Is your natural bias towards being positive or being negative? Most people generally answer positive.

And what about your relationship with reality; what is going on in the world around you?

If your version of reality is negative, you are conditioned to believe that whatever can go wrong, will go wrong and whatever can go right, will probably go wrong too. Your unconsciously held beliefs make you into a negative person without your being aware of it. According to social-science.com, this is because negativity often disguises itself as reality.

Being realistic does not mean things will go wrong. Being realistic is merely accepting ‘what is’. It is your relationship with something that determines your reality (not the something). Your perspective or context determines your relationship with reality. A positive context affords the belief in the possibility of a positive outcome.

Here is the caveat though: you are still negative by…